#002 Mindset shift
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“Whether it leads to failure or success, it's only by doing that we learn, so go for it!”
As a doubtful person I was often scared and stressed to make choices, but I really wanted to take the plunge! So, I decided that maybe I needed to adjust my mindset while building Bísó. That's when I embraced personal development.
Time for some mindset adjustments
I used to struggle with seeking validation due to a lack of confidence, often overreacting when things didn't go as planned in my projects. In my mind, it was either extraordinary or a complete disaster. I constantly pressured myself to complete tasks perfectly, rushing through everything with the constant thought, "I don’t have the time”. It was an unproductive and anxious attitude, but I realized the need for change. So, in late October, I decided to explore personal development to increase my self-confidence, organisation, and resilience to face challenges. While it may not be necessary for everyone, I now understand its essential role in my life. Aligning more with my desires and values has brought me serenity, and I'm developing a stronger mindset that aligns with my vision of entrepreneurship.
Learning & growing
Eight months ago, I was convinced that taking on that project would imply greater risks than rewards. Now, the goal isn't just to succeed at any cost, but to learn, evolve, and sometimes, accept failures and setbacks. One day, a friend asked me the best question, “What could be the worst scenario if you fail?” I answered, “I'll go back to work for someone else, meanwhile continuing to develop the brand. It's part of the game." Thinking like this, there's nothing to be afraid of.
Since then, I no longer see it as a risk but as a fantastic opportunity to learn new things about myself, develop new skills, and meet amazing people along the way.
With some hindsight, I realize I was paralysed by the idea of starting this project, mainly due to the fear of others' opinions and trying something new. In short, I didn't feel entirely legitimate to proclaim, "I'm building my fashion brand" and I especially didn't want to field questions like: When is it coming out? What’s the name of the brand? What kind of clothes will it be? While I wasn't necessarily annoyed by all the questions, at that time, I wasn't sure of the answers, and I preferred to keep them to myself. Today, as time passes and after some mindset coaching, I find myself caring less and less about it, and simply focus on taking action, regardless of the outcome. Currently, I'm fully immersed in production, and let me tell you, it's chaotic! I've never worked with fashion suppliers before and I'm navigating blindly (even with the assistance of a very special person; but that’s a story for another time).
However, I know that once the first pieces are produced, I would have learned how it works, what mistakes to avoid, how to better organise myself, and how to work with each supplier.
So, what's certain is that I love what I do most of the time. This year, I'm taking my time and choosing to learn, even if the question "When is it coming out?" still stresses me out a lot. It's often messy (although less and less), despite my passion for organisation, but the experience is truly worth it.
My recap, lessons learned and rewards
Challenge
- Navigating my emotions and confronting that inner voice saying, "Who do you believe you are to launch a fashion brand ? Go back to work girl! "
Success
- I'm still working on the brand, and I'm proud of my ability to keep going ! Now, I understand my emotions better, and it feels great to know myself more!
Insights
- Self-development should be a discipline at school
- Solved the problem first and live the drama after
- Keep engaging in activities unrelated to my brand—my mind appreciates it
In the next episode, I'll share with you my sanctuary, the workshop where everything takes shape, and how finally having a dedicated workspace has multiplied and deepened my creativity.
A little note to the Frenchies: a French translation is on its way!